5:29 AM: “Where Are The Keys?” — My Bank Threatened Police Arrest for Taking Leave.
A Public Sector Bank employee’s 24-hour nightmare. Complete timeline with screenshots. Every claim can be verified.
At 6:07 AM on February 8, 2025, a Regional Manager at one of India’s largest Public Sector Banks told me:
“We will send police behind you. Even if you reach your hometown, they will arrest you there.”
My crime?
Going on approved leave to attend my brother’s wedding.
Trying to hold my 2-month-old daughter for the first time.
The evidence against me?
Keys I never held. Keys that were with another manager the entire time.
This is the full timeline. Screenshots included. Names redacted.
This is what happens when you say “no” in Indian banking.
📌 A Note to Readers
The bank name has been redacted for legal reasons.
But if you work in Indian banking — public or private sector — you already know this story.
Because this isn’t about one bank.
This is about a system that protects managers who abuse power, and punishes employees who say “no.”
The screenshots are real. The timeline is exact. The originals are with employment lawyers.
If you’re a journalist, you know how to reach me.
Now, here’s what happened.
December 5, 2024 — My Daughter Was Born
I wasn’t there.
I was 1,700 kilometers away in Shorapur, Karnataka, working at a branch where I was the only person handling three people’s responsibilities.
My wife was back home for over 8 months during her pregnancy because I couldn’t care for her with my unpredictable banking hours. I sent her to our hometown, where our family could support her.
My daughter was born on December 5th, 2024.
I haven’t held her properly yet. Not as a father should.
The rented house in Shorapur is empty now. Just me, and the constant hum of work that never seems to end.
My brother’s wedding was scheduled for February 18th. I requested leave 30 days in advance.
This is the story of the 24 hours that destroyed me for trying to go home.
January 8, 2025 — The Leave Request
I submit my leave request through the bank’s email.
February 8 to February 23, 2025. Fifteen days.
I need time to help with wedding preparations. My parents can’t manage everything alone. And I need to be with my wife and daughter.
I follow up:
- Through email
- Through WhatsApp
- Through phone calls
The response?
Silence.
My Branch Manager tells me repeatedly: “The Regional Manager will approve it. I can’t do anything.”
The Regional Manager never responds. Not even a thumbs-up emoji on WhatsApp.
But I see the double checkmarks. He’s reading my messages.
Weeks pass.
My flight is booked for February 8th, evening departure from Hyderabad.
Still no approval. But no denial either.
I assume silence means consent. That’s how it works in Indian corporate, right? If they had a problem, they’d tell me.
I’m wrong.
📅 February 7, 2025 — The Trap
10:00 AM — The Messenger
I’m at my desk, focused on finishing everything before tomorrow’s flight.
A messenger appears holding keys.
“Sir, you are accountant today.”
I look up. “What?”
“Madam is not here. You have to take the keys. There’s nobody else.”
I walk to the manager’s cabin.
“Sir, what is this? Why am I taking keys?”
He’s sitting behind his desk, relaxed. Almost smiling.
“Nidhi is in Raichur for training. You’ll handle it today and Monday. She’ll be back Tuesday.”
My flight is tomorrow. Saturday. My leave starts Monday.
“Sir, I’m leaving tomorrow. My flight—”
He leans back in his chair.
“Aap kaheen nahi ja rahe hain.”
You’re not going anywhere.
The Protocol Violation
Here’s what you need to understand about bank keys:
When you hand over cash chest keys, RBI guidelines are clear. The outgoing custodian and incoming custodian must:
- Be present together
- Verify the cash chest physically
- Sign handover documentation
This training for accountants has been going on for ten days. Every day, one employee goes for two days. The manager has had weeks to plan this.
He could have sent Nidhi before my leave.
He could have sent her after my leave.
He chose the day before my flight.
And there’s another problem:
Yesterday — February 6th — I was on official deputation at Kakkera Branch, 30 kilometers away. I was holding their keys.
Nidhi was here in Shorapur being relieved.
One person cannot hold two branch keys simultaneously. It’s physically impossible.
But more than that: Nidhi isn’t here to hand me the keys. She’s already in Raichur.
The keys came through a messenger.
There’s been no formal handover. No verification. No signatures.
This isn’t protocol. This is a trap.
If I take these keys, I cannot leave Shorapur. A key custodian cannot leave their station. If the branch doesn’t open Monday because I’m not here, I’m responsible. For everything.
And my manager knows this.
10:20 AM — The HR Call
I leave his cabin and call the HR Manager.
“Sir, you know about my leave request. I’ve been following up for a month. I emailed, WhatsApped, called. Now on my last working day, he’s asking me to take keys when my flight is tomorrow?”
His voice is cold. Professional.
“When is the marriage?”
“February 18th.”
“Then you can take leave on 17th, 18th, 19th. Attend the wedding and come back. The problem is this training is going on. Arranging deputation isn’t possible.”
My hands are shaking.
“Sir, why didn’t you tell me before? I’ve been requesting for over a month. I followed up through every possible channel. You had weeks to arrange this.”
“The training—”
“The training has been going on for weeks! He could have sent Nidhi any other day. My flight tickets are already booked. If I rebook for Tuesday, it’ll cost twenty thousand rupees.”
“There’s no way to arrange deputation right now.”
I can feel my voice breaking.
“I can’t take these keys. There’s been no proper handover. He sent the accountant without informing me I’d be holding keys. This violates protocol.”
Silence.
“I’m not keeping well. I’m leaving for the day.”
I walk out of the branch.
11:30 AM — On the Way Home
HR calls again while I’m driving.
“Can you take the keys just for today? Run the branch today?”
I pull over.
“Will you send someone by evening to take the keys back? I need to be relieved tonight. My flight is tomorrow morning.”
“I’ll call you back.”
He doesn’t call back.
12:35 PM — Email #1: The Documentation Begins
I’m home now. Sitting at my laptop. My hands are still shaking but I know what I have to do.
Document everything.
Subject: Urgent Escalation – Deliberate Obstruction of Leave & Manipulation of Responsibilities
I list everything:
- Manager ignored repeated requests to correct my HRMS records
- Refused to process my leave request despite 30 days notice
- Intentionally sent accountant for training at the last moment
- Created unnecessary confusion to disrupt my leave plans
“Given these circumstances, I have no choice but to proceed with my leave as planned.”
Send.
I cc HR and the Credit Manager.
1:06 PM — The Manager Strikes Back
His response arrives in my inbox.
Subject: ACT OF INSUBORDINATION BY YOU BY NOT OBEYING THE ORDER OF YOUR CONTROLLER TO HOLD THE JOINT CUSTODIAN KEY
Copied to HR and Credit Manager.
“You have not obeyed the order of branch Manager today… Your this action is not appreciated we want to place it on record our dissatisfaction.”
Insubordination.
That word.
For refusing to accept keys without proper protocol.
For refusing to be trapped into missing my flight.
For saying “no” to manipulation.
1:20 PM — Email #2: The Legal Defense
I respond. Calm. Factual. Protocol-focused.
“The handing over and taking over of joint custodian keys require a formal process where both the outgoing and incoming custodian sign a handover document. However, I was on official deputation to Kakkera branch yesterday (06/02/2025), and instead of following the correct procedure, the keys were retained by you, which is not the standard protocol.”
“I was only informed today morning (07/02/2025) that I would have to take custody of the keys. This last-minute assignment of a serious responsibility has caused significant mental stress and tension.”
“Due to the stress caused by this situation, I am not in a condition to work today.”
“I request that this matter be reviewed by higher management to ensure fair procedural conduct and adherence to standard operating protocols.”
Send.
2:00 PM — The Dead Battery
I haven’t eaten since morning.
I gave my bike to a friend yesterday — no point keeping it here for fifteen days. I still have my car.
I get in to drive somewhere for food.
Turn the key.
Nothing.
The battery’s dead. I left the headlights on during the HR call without realizing it.
The nearest restaurant is two kilometers away. I can’t walk that far — I’m emotionally exhausted, physically drained.
There’s a bar one kilometer away.
I walk.
3:00 PM — The Bar
Two bottles of beer. Some chips.
I sit there for hours.
I’m not drinking to celebrate. I’m not even drinking to forget.
I’m drinking because I don’t know what else to do.
My phone sits on the table, silent.
No call from HR about key relief.
No message about deputation arrangement.
No acknowledgment that they’ve destroyed my plans.
Just silence.
8:08 PM — The Message to the Regional Manager
I’m still in the bar when I decide to reach out to the one person I thought would help.
The Regional Manager.
Someone I admire. Charming. Excellent English. From my hometown. Became RM at barely 40 years old.
He’s been copied on all the emails today. He knows everything.
He never responds to messages. Not even a thumbs-up emoji. But I know he reads them. I see the blue checkmarks.
If he knows my manager created this mess, he’ll fix it. He’ll take my side.
I send him a long WhatsApp message:
“Sir, my manager on purpose relieved the accountant for training yesterday. He could have sent her before or after but he chose today… I chose not to be manipulated because of his managerial position of power.”
“Kitni baar bhi bolo, he says that leave will be approved by you (the RM). Now today being the last day when I asked HR, he said the manager will approve leave.”
“If my manager is a psychopath, should I just bow down to him because he is the manager.”
“I did not want to obstruct the bank’s business. I was okay with taking the keys for the day. But then HR sir didn’t confirm if he would send another person to take the keys in the evening.”
“Am I responsible for what happened today.”
“If you say that I should not go, I will not go.”
“I see you in high regard. And I hope you will do justice.”
Send. 8:08 PM.
Blue checkmarks appear immediately.
He’s seen it.
I leave the bar. Walk home.
Still haven’t packed my bags. I’ll do it tomorrow morning.
I sleep.
📅 February 8, 2025 — The Destruction
1:53 AM — The First Response
My phone buzzes.
I wake up, disoriented.
The Regional Manager.
He’s never responded to my messages before. Not once. Not even to acknowledge receipt.
But now, at 1:53 in the morning, a long message appears:
“Dear Samadarshi, I understand and empathize with the challenges you’re facing at work, especially being away from your hometown. However, it’s crucial that we continue to fulfill our official responsibilities despite these difficulties. These challenges are opportunities for us to demonstrate our resilience and commitment.”
Resilience.
That word.
The word managers use when they want you to suffer in silence.
“You had gone away on unauthorised long leaves earlier, I am told, which we accommodated despite an element of indiscipline involved.”
This is a lie.
I’ve never taken unauthorized leave. But he states it so smoothly, so casually, as if it’s established fact.
“I want to emphasize the importance of handling chest branch and joint custody matters which need seriousness and diligence. Please be patient and remain at your station. I’ll discuss possible solutions with the team on Monday.”
Stay at your station.
My flight is in sixteen hours.
My wife. My daughter I haven’t properly held. My brother’s wedding.
He’s asking me to stay.
The person I admired. The person I thought would do justice.
He’s choosing the manager’s narrative over documented evidence.
3:25 AM — My Response
I can’t sleep now.
I open my laptop and draft a response. My hands are shaking but my mind is clear.
“Sir, I completely understand and respect your perspective. However, I had informed about my leave a month in advance, and my manager never explicitly denied it. Now, at the very last moment, he has deliberately created hurdles to obstruct my leave.”
“I have family responsibilities that I cannot ignore. If I do not leave now, I will not be able to make the necessary arrangements for my brother’s wedding. I assure you that I will take full accountability for my work upon return. I am proceeding as per my planned leave, and I will ensure all pending tasks are cleared when I am back.”
Send. 3:25 AM.
Blue checkmarks.
I try to sleep but can’t.
5:29 AM — “Where Are The Keys???”
My phone pings.
I had put it on silent mode after the 3:25 AM message. Do Not Disturb activated.
But when I wake up around 6 AM and check my phone, I see:
5:29 AM WhatsApp message:
“Where are the keys of the chest???”
5:32 AM: Missed WhatsApp call.
My heart stops.
I respond immediately:
“With Branch Manager.”
6:00 AM — The First Call
Voice call. Four minutes.
“Where are the keys?” His voice is sharp. Angry.
“With the branch manager. It’s not with me. I never took the keys.”
“Your manager says they’re with the joint custodian.”
“The keys are your responsibility.”
“Sir, with all respect, I can prove I never held them. There’s no handover documentation. Check the CCTV if you want. I was never in the same room as those keys.”
He keeps insisting I have the keys.
I keep saying I don’t.
My voice is steady but my hands are shaking.
“Sir, let’s conference call my manager right now. I’ll confront him. You’ll see he’s lying.”
The call disconnects.
6:05 AM — The Evidence
I message him:
“Sir, I was at Kakkera Branch on the 6th. I was holding their keys. Nidhi was relieved here the same day. One person cannot hold two branch keys simultaneously. The keys were never handed to me.”
6:05 AM. Double checkmarks.
Read.
6:07 AM — The Call That Broke Me
Another voice call. Eight minutes.
He ignores everything I just sent.
“Your manager says they’re with the joint custodian.”
“If you do not report for duty, we will suspend you.”
My heart is pounding now.
“We will send police behind you.”
Police.
For keys I never held.
For a leave I requested properly.
“Even if you reach your hometown, the police will arrest you there.”
I’m sitting on my bed in my empty rented house in Shorapur. The phone is pressed against my ear. My hand is shaking.
I’m emotionally destroyed now. Broken.
But something else rises in me.
“Hum Marne se Nahi Darte Hain Sir.”
Silence.
“Suspend me, sir. Send the police.”
“How dare you talk to an RM like this?” he says suddenly. “You’re Scale 1—”
“I’m Scale 2, sir.”
“—and I’m Scale 5. This is the first time an RM has called someone of your level at 5 AM in the morning.”
“Sir, I messaged you at 8 PM yesterday. Normal closing time. It wasn’t me calling at odd hours.”
He tells me that when he is talking, I have the audacity to talk over him, which isn’t correct behavior.
I let him talk.
I tell him, “Boliye sir,” and then he continues threatening. Suspension. Police. Then “I will send my officers behind you”—whatever that means.
Because I can’t talk over him, I don’t speak a word. I only listen.
And then the call disconnects.
I don’t know if he disconnected on purpose, or his battery died, or what happened.
I didn’t call him back.
6:40 AM — The Truth
I call a staff member at the branch.
“Who has the keys?”
“Trivedi sir came yesterday evening and took them.”
The keys were never with me.
They were with another officer since February 7th evening.
The entire time the Regional Manager was threatening me with police arrest, suspension, and criminal charges, the keys were safely in someone else’s possession.
6:49 AM — I Inform Him
I message the RM:
“I just found out the keys are with Trivedi. He collected it yesterday.”
No response.
7:07 AM — The Final Message
“Looks like your phone’s battery died. I never intended to bother you. Now when the keys are with Trivedi, I am leaving for my home tonight. It’s important that I go. I have to make arrangements. My parents can’t manage it on their own. Have a good day.”
12:03 PM — His Response
Finally, his response arrives:
“Please call Manager HR and take instructions from him.”
That’s it.
No acknowledgment that the keys were never with me.
No apology for the 5 AM threats.
No recognition that I was right all along.
Just: call HR.
7:00 AM — The Journey That Never Happened
I sit in my empty rented house.
I haven’t packed my bags yet.
My flight is from Hyderabad — six and a half hours away. I have to catch a bus from Shorapur to Hyderabad.
My mind isn’t working properly. I don’t know what to do first.
Pack my bag? Book a bus ticket? Process what just happened?
I book a train ticket from Wadi to Secunderabad. I plan to take a bus to Wadi first, then the train to Secunderabad, then a cab to the airport.
I have no idea what I’m doing.
Shorapur Bus Stand — Morning
When I reach the bus stand, I discover the bus to Wadi is at 10 AM and takes three hours.
My train from Wadi is at 11:30 AM.
It’s physically impossible to make that connection.
The next bus from Shorapur to Hyderabad is at 11 AM, but it takes seven hours. I’d reach Hyderabad at 6 PM — the exact time my flight departs.
I check the price for rebooking tonight’s flight.
₹30,000.
I call my friend who has my bike to see if there’s any other way.
My bag is at my feet.
The departure board doesn’t change.
I’m still here.
Still calculating.
Still trying to figure out how to get home.
This Is Bigger Than Keys
This isn’t about keys.
This was never about keys.
This is about what happens when you have:
- A daughter you haven’t held properly
- A brother getting married
- Parents who can’t manage wedding preparations alone
- A manager who knows you have no choice
Because in Indian corporate culture, saying “no” to your manager means:
❌ You’re “not a team player”
❌ You’re “insubordinate”
❌ You’re “ungrateful for the opportunity”
Even when you’re right.
Even when you have proof.
Even when THEY are breaking protocol.
The threat isn’t just suspension.
It’s the psychological warfare:
- Calling at 5:29 AM to break you
- Threatening police for keys you never held
- Making you choose between your job and your family
- Lying about “unauthorized leaves” to discredit you
- Using power dynamics (“I’m Scale 5, you’re Scale 2”) to silence you
And when you refuse to break?
When you document everything?
When you cite protocols they’re violating?
They call it “insubordination.”
The Evidence
Every claim in this article can be proven:
✅ Email timestamps — Showing leave request, manager’s “insubordination” accusation, my protocol citations
✅ WhatsApp messages with RM — 8:08 PM initial message, 1:53 AM response, 5:29 AM “where are the keys”, 6:05 AM my evidence, final messages
✅ Call logs — 6:00 AM and 6:07 AM calls on February 8th
✅ Staff testimony — Confirming Trivedi collected keys February 7th evening
✅ Bank protocols — RBI guidelines on key custody handover procedures
✅ Flight booking — February 8th departure from Hyderabad
✅ Deputation records — Showing I was at Kakkera Branch on February 6th holding their keys
Original screenshots available to journalists and legal counsel upon request.
What This Costs
Let me break down what it costs to say “no” in Indian banking:
Financial:
- ₹30,000 to rebook flights
- Lost wedding preparation time (parents hiring help: ₹15,000)
- Emotional toll (priceless)
Professional:
- “Insubordination” on record
- “Unauthorized leave” lie in RM’s message
- Permanent target on your back
Personal:
- Missed time with 2-month-old daughter
- Stress on wife managing alone
- Brother’s wedding preparations disrupted
- 8 minutes of psychological abuse at 6 AM
And what did the bank lose?
Let me break down what it costs to say “no” in Indian banking:
Financial:
- ₹30,000 to rebook flights
- Lost wedding preparation time (parents hiring help: ₹15,000)
- Emotional toll (priceless)
Professional:
- “Insubordination” on record
- “Unauthorized leave” lie in RM’s message
- Permanent target on your back
Personal:
- Missed time with 2-month-old daughter
- Stress on wife managing alone
- Brother’s wedding preparations disrupted
- 8 minutes of psychological abuse at 6 AM
And what did the bank lose?
Everything that mattered.
February 8th — The branch chest didn’t open.
The keys to an RBI cash chest holding hundreds of crores of rupees?
They were left somewhere in the bank. With nobody.
Jothi was sent to Raichur for training.
I wasn’t in the branch (I was on deputation at Kakkera).
No proper handover was done.
The keys — responsible for securing hundreds of crores — were simply abandoned.
Customers waited for hours.
Cash counters could only pay out what they received in deposits that day. That’s how the branch ran on February 8th.
The bank’s reputation was at risk.
Customer service was destroyed.
RBI protocols were violated.
And I had offered a solution.
I told HR: “I’m okay with taking the keys for today. Just send someone by evening to relieve me so I can catch my flight. Give me that assurance.”
He said, “Let me think.”
He never called back.
I refused to accept an improper handover without any guarantee of relief. Because that would have made ME responsible when the inevitable disaster happened.
So I said no.
And they made me the villain.
“Insubordination.”
“Police action.”
“Suspension threats.”
Not because I caused the problem.
But because I refused to be the scapegoat for THEIR failures.
They put customers at risk.
They left hundreds of crores unsecured.
They violated RBI protocols.
And nothing happened to them.
Instead, they sent emails calling me insubordinate.
They threatened police action.
They tried to pass their accountability onto the victim.
Because that’s how the system works:
When managers fail, employees pay the price.
This was purely about power.
About making an example of someone who refused to bow.
HAVE YOU FACED THIS?
If your manager has ever:
- Threatened you for taking approved leave
- Created last-minute “emergencies” to trap you
- Used police/suspension threats to control you
- Made you choose between family and job
- Violated protocols then blamed you for “insubordination”
- Called you at odd hours to psychologically break you
- Lied about your record to discredit you
Share this story.
Not for me.
For the next person they try this on.
Because the only thing that stops this behavior is making it too expensive to hide.
Tag someone who needs to see this.
Send it to that colleague who’s being abused right now.
Forward it to that friend who thinks they’re “just not cut out for corporate.”
You’re not weak.
The system is designed to break you.
